The Hanoi couple was excited about their wedding night,

 There are women who cannot "have sex" after marriage, the problem is not in the pathology but in the thoughts and ideas. Detecting and successfully dealing with this problem is not easy.

The wedding night "rumbled" for an hour and still couldn't do it

Master, doctor Phan Chi Thanh - Chief of the Office of the Center for Training and Directing (Central Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology) - an expert in female sexuality, said that in daily life, there are many women. having problems with sex, affecting quality of life. However, many people still try to endure, even sacrificing family happiness just because they think this is a delicate matter that they do not want to share with anyone.

One of the sexual problems women face is not being able to have sex with their husbands even though they have been married for many years. “Most of the cases when they come to the examination and counseling, they are quite young (under 30 years old), there are couples who think about terminating their marriage just because they can't have sex, leading to the inability to get pregnant and become pregnant. give birth," shared Doctor Thanh.

There is a case of a 24-year-old girl in Hanoi who always has a sense of keeping her virginity to wait until the wedding night, even though she has loved a few people before getting married. Finally, on the wedding night, the couple could not have intercourse.

According to the young wife's share, that night, the couple was in high spirits, but every time the husband was about to bring the "little boy" in, the wife cringe. Just like that, the couple wrestled for an hour without being able to do anything. The wedding night that was supposed to be fun, impressive, and happy turned out to be a sad memory for the young couple.

After a few times like that, the couple took each other to the doctor. As a result, the wife did not have any problems with gynecological diseases. The only unusual thing the doctor noticed was that the wife was always alert, afraid, and stiff when examined. According to the initial assessment, the wife is sexually desensitized and to solve this problem, desensitization must be performed.

According to Dr. Thanh, actually these cases are not rare, but many people do not understand correctly and try to treat by dilating the vagina, even thinking that due to the thick hymen, the hymen must be broken. "This makes women more worried, afraid and painful, which can then negatively affect psychology," said Dr. Thanh.